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Respect in a relationship is treating others how they want to be treated. Healthy relationships are when the relationship means the same thing to both people who are in it. In reality, romantic relationships aren't that different than any of the other relationships in our life; they require trust, a level of comfort around each other, loyalty, and honesty.

When you have conversations with teens, frame it with genuine curiosity and let your child be the expert on their own experience. Below are some questions you can use to help the conversation along:

Is there trust in the relationship?

What is trust and where do you feel trust in other parts of your life?

What does trust feel like in your body?

What are the things that you do together to reveal the trust?

Are you comfortable being yourself with this person?

Do you understand consent?

Do you both want the same thing?

Are you able to communicate how you want to be treated to this person?

Why and how do you want to express your feelings toward this person?

Remember, ask one or two per conversation, and read the moment to ask something appropriate to the activity going on around you. Let the conversations flow freely, and let your teenager open up more as these conversations develop.

Respect in a relationship is treating others how they want to be treated. Healthy relationships are when the relationship means the same thing to both people who are in it. In reality, romantic relationships aren't that different than any of the other relationships in our life; they require trust, a level of comfort around each other, loyalty, and honesty.

When you have conversations with teens, frame it with genuine curiosity and let your child be the expert on their own experience. Below are some questions you can use to help the conversation along:

Is there trust in the relationship?

What is trust and where do you feel trust in other parts of your life?

What does trust feel like in your body?

What are the things that you do together to reveal the trust?

Are you comfortable being yourself with this person?

Do you understand consent?

Do you both want the same thing?

Are you able to communicate how you want to be treated to this person?

Why and how do you want to express your feelings toward this person?

Remember, ask one or two per conversation, and read the moment to ask something appropriate to the activity going on around you. Let the conversations flow freely, and let your teenager open up more as these conversations develop.

Respect in a relationship is treating others how they want to be treated. Healthy relationships are when the relationship means the same thing to both people who are in it. In reality, romantic relationships aren't that different than any of the other relationships in our life; they require trust, a level of comfort around each other, loyalty, and honesty.

When you have conversations with teens, frame it with genuine curiosity and let your child be the expert on their own experience. Below are some questions you can use to help the conversation along:

Is there trust in the relationship?

What is trust and where do you feel trust in other parts of your life?

What does trust feel like in your body?

What are the things that you do together to reveal the trust?

Are you comfortable being yourself with this person?

Do you understand consent?

Do you both want the same thing?

Are you able to communicate how you want to be treated to this person?

Why and how do you want to express your feelings toward this person?

Remember, ask one or two per conversation, and read the moment to ask something appropriate to the activity going on around you. Let the conversations flow freely, and let your teenager open up more as these conversations develop.

Respect in a relationship is treating others how they want to be treated. Healthy relationships are when the relationship means the same thing to both people who are in it. In reality, romantic relationships aren't that different than any of the other relationships in our life; they require trust, a level of comfort around each other, loyalty, and honesty.

When you have conversations with teens, frame it with genuine curiosity and let your child be the expert on their own experience. Below are some questions you can use to help the conversation along:

Is there trust in the relationship?

What is trust and where do you feel trust in other parts of your life?

What does trust feel like in your body?

What are the things that you do together to reveal the trust?

Are you comfortable being yourself with this person?

Do you understand consent?

Do you both want the same thing?

Are you able to communicate how you want to be treated to this person?

Why and how do you want to express your feelings toward this person?

Remember, ask one or two per conversation, and read the moment to ask something appropriate to the activity going on around you. Let the conversations flow freely, and let your teenager open up more as these conversations develop.

Respect in a relationship is treating others how they want to be treated. Healthy relationships are when the relationship means the same thing to both people who are in it. In reality, romantic relationships aren't that different than any of the other relationships in our life; they require trust, a level of comfort around each other, loyalty, and honesty.

When you have conversations with teens, frame it with genuine curiosity and let your child be the expert on their own experience. Below are some questions you can use to help the conversation along:

Is there trust in the relationship?

What is trust and where do you feel trust in other parts of your life?

What does trust feel like in your body?

What are the things that you do together to reveal the trust?

Are you comfortable being yourself with this person?

Do you understand consent?

Do you both want the same thing?

Are you able to communicate how you want to be treated to this person?

Why and how do you want to express your feelings toward this person?

Remember, ask one or two per conversation, and read the moment to ask something appropriate to the activity going on around you. Let the conversations flow freely, and let your teenager open up more as these conversations develop.

If you've just had a break-up and are feeling down, you're not alone. Just about everyone experiences a break-up at some point, and many then have to deal with heartbreak — a wave of grief, anger, confusion, low self-esteem, and maybe even jealousy all at once.

What Exactly Is Heartbreak?

Lots of things can cause heartbreak. Some people might have had a romantic relationship that ended before they were ready. Others might have strong feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way. Or maybe a person feels sad or angry when a close friend ends or abandons the friendship.

Although the causes may be different, the feeling of loss is the same — whether it's the loss of something real or the loss of something you only hoped for. People describe heartbreak as a feeling of heaviness, emptiness, and sadness.

How Can I Deal With How I Feel?

Most people will tell you you'll get over it or you'll meet someone else, but when it's happening to you, it can feel like no one else in the world has ever felt the same way. If you're experiencing these feelings, there are things you can do to lessen the pain.

Here are some tips that might help.

Share your feelings. Some people find that sharing their feelings with someone they trust — someone who recognizes what they're going through — helps them feel better. That could mean talking over all the things you feel, even having a good cry on the shoulder of a comforting friend or family member. If you feel like someone can't relate to what you're going through or is dismissive of your feelings, find someone more sympathetic to talk to.

Don't be afraid to cry. Going through a break-up can be really tough, and crying can be a big help. If you don't want to cry in front of anyone, just a find a place where you can be alone, like crying into your pillow at night or in the shower when you're getting ready for the day.

If you've just had a break-up and are feeling down, you're not alone. Just about everyone experiences a break-up at some point, and many then have to deal with heartbreak — a wave of grief, anger, confusion, low self-esteem, and maybe even jealousy all at once.

What Exactly Is Heartbreak?

Lots of things can cause heartbreak. Some people might have had a romantic relationship that ended before they were ready. Others might have strong feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way. Or maybe a person feels sad or angry when a close friend ends or abandons the friendship.

Although the causes may be different, the feeling of loss is the same — whether it's the loss of something real or the loss of something you only hoped for. People describe heartbreak as a feeling of heaviness, emptiness, and sadness.

How Can I Deal With How I Feel?

Most people will tell you you'll get over it or you'll meet someone else, but when it's happening to you, it can feel like no one else in the world has ever felt the same way. If you're experiencing these feelings, there are things you can do to lessen the pain.

Here are some tips that might help.

Share your feelings. Some people find that sharing their feelings with someone they trust — someone who recognizes what they're going through — helps them feel better. That could mean talking over all the things you feel, even having a good cry on the shoulder of a comforting friend or family member. If you feel like someone can't relate to what you're going through or is dismissive of your feelings, find someone more sympathetic to talk to.

Don't be afraid to cry. Going through a break-up can be really tough, and crying can be a big help. If you don't want to cry in front of anyone, just a find a place where you can be alone, like crying into your pillow at night or in the shower when you're getting ready for the day.

We've all experienced love. We've loved (and been loved by) parents, brothers, sisters, friends, even pets. But romantic love is different. It's an intense, new feeling unlike any of these other ways of loving.

Why Do We Fall in Love?

Loving and being loved add richness to our lives. When people feel close to others they are happier and even healthier. Love helps us feel important, understood, and secure. But each kind of love has its own distinctive feel. The kind of love we feel for a parent is different from our love for a baby brother or best friend. And the kind of love we feel in romantic relationships is its own unique type of love.

Our ability to feel romantic love develops during adolescence. Teens all over the world notice passionate feelings of attraction. Even in cultures where people are not allowed to act on or express these feelings, they're still there. It's a natural part of growing up to develop romantic feelings and sexual attractions to others. These new feelings can be exciting — or even confusing at first.

We've all experienced love. We've loved (and been loved by) parents, brothers, sisters, friends, even pets. But romantic love is different. It's an intense, new feeling unlike any of these other ways of loving.

Why Do We Fall in Love?

Loving and being loved add richness to our lives. When people feel close to others they are happier and even healthier. Love helps us feel important, understood, and secure. But each kind of love has its own distinctive feel. The kind of love we feel for a parent is different from our love for a baby brother or best friend. And the kind of love we feel in romantic relationships is its own unique type of love.

Our ability to feel romantic love develops during adolescence. Teens all over the world notice passionate feelings of attraction. Even in cultures where people are not allowed to act on or express these feelings, they're still there. It's a natural part of growing up to develop romantic feelings and sexual attractions to others. These new feelings can be exciting — or even confusing at first.

We've all experienced love. We've loved (and been loved by) parents, brothers, sisters, friends, even pets. But romantic love is different. It's an intense, new feeling unlike any of these other ways of loving.

Why Do We Fall in Love?

Loving and being loved add richness to our lives. When people feel close to others they are happier and even healthier. Love helps us feel important, understood, and secure. But each kind of love has its own distinctive feel. The kind of love we feel for a parent is different from our love for a baby brother or best friend. And the kind of love we feel in romantic relationships is its own unique type of love.

Our ability to feel romantic love develops during adolescence. Teens all over the world notice passionate feelings of attraction. Even in cultures where people are not allowed to act on or express these feelings, they're still there. It's a natural part of growing up to develop romantic feelings and sexual attractions to others. These new feelings can be exciting — or even confusing at first.

We've all experienced love. We've loved (and been loved by) parents, brothers, sisters, friends, even pets. But romantic love is different. It's an intense, new feeling unlike any of these other ways of loving.

Why Do We Fall in Love?

Loving and being loved add richness to our lives. When people feel close to others they are happier and even healthier. Love helps us feel important, understood, and secure. But each kind of love has its own distinctive feel. The kind of love we feel for a parent is different from our love for a baby brother or best friend. And the kind of love we feel in romantic relationships is its own unique type of love.

Our ability to feel romantic love develops during adolescence. Teens all over the world notice passionate feelings of attraction. Even in cultures where people are not allowed to act on or express these feelings, they're still there. It's a natural part of growing up to develop romantic feelings and sexual attractions to others. These new feelings can be exciting — or even confusing at first.